Advice on Managing Divorce if you Have Children
You know your children better than anyone else, and as a parent, you are best placed to make important decisions about their care and wellbeing. But there may be times you need additional guidance and support regarding divorce with children.
If you’re getting divorced, separating, or your cohabiting relationship is ending, our divorce solicitors can advise you on a wide range of issues relating to your children. As far as possible, we can help you reach an amicable agreement in your children’s best interests. Where this is not achievable, we can apply to the courts for appropriate orders on your behalf.
Our divorce and family law solicitors in Chesterfield, Sheffield, Dronfield and Mansfield are here to support and guide you every step of the way.
Legal Advice and Support with Family Matters
We know that when relationships break down, it can put a lot of pressure on you and your family. Our expert family law solicitors are highly experienced and ensure every individual receives the utmost care and consideration throughout their case.
- Tailored legal advice based on your individual family circumstances
- Support in reaching constructive and non-confrontational settlements where possible
- Guidance and advice from Resolution accredited specialists
- Clear information about funding options and fixed fee packages
- An early indication of the likely level of legal costs
Remember: Advice from friends and family is often well-meaning, but it may relate to very different situations and can unintentionally create false expectations. Always seek professional guidance from a family law specialist, like Banner Jones.
We can Help with Children, Divorce or Finances
1. Call us to discuss your situation
Our friendly team are always available for a quick, no-obligation chat to understand your circumstances and how we may be able to help. We will identify the most suitable next step and, where appropriate, arrange an initial one-hour telephone appointment with an expert family law solicitor at a time that is convenient for you.
2. Choose a fixed fee legal advice package
We offer two types of initial appointments for a fixed fee, which is payable in advance.
The Thirty – 30 minute call: £100 +VAT (£120)
This package includes a 30-minute phone call with a family law solicitor. We will talk you through your options and provide advice to help you move forward. To keep costs as low as possible, this advice will not be confirmed in writing, although we will keep an internal record of the discussion.
The Sixty – 60 minute advice appointment: £250 +VAT (£300)
This is our most popular option and the package includes a 60-minute advice appointment with a family law solicitor. The meeting can take place by phone, virtually, or in person at one of our offices, depending on what is most convenient for you.
We will take a detailed history of your case, explain your options and provide the detailed advice you need to move forward. After the meeting, we will send you a letter confirming our advice in writing and outlining the next steps.
Important information
Our initial appointments differ from the ‘free 30 minute’ consultations offered by some law firms. Free appointments are often limited to general guidance, however we believe clients benefit from clear, tailored legal advice from the outset. In our experience, shorter free meetings do not allow enough time to discuss matters fully or provide practical advice about your specific situation, and written follow-up advice is usually charged for separately. No two situations are the same.
3. Speak with an expert, compassionate solicitor
During your appointment with one of our family law solicitors, we will listen carefully to your situation and explain the options available to you. We will then provide a clear professional opinion on the most appropriate route based on your individual circumstances. Where sufficient information is available, we can also advise you on the possible outcomes so you can make informed decisions about your next steps.
4. Receive professional, actionable advice in writing
Following the 60-minute meeting option with our family law solicitors, the advice will be confirmed in writing. This is included in the initial meeting fixed fee.
5. Think about your next steps
You can take your time to decide whether or not you wish to proceed with your case, and any further appointments will be made should you wish to move forward.
Child Arrangement Orders
Child Arrangement Orders (CAO) replaced the previous "Residence" and "Contact" Orders on 22nd April 2014. This change encourages parents to focus on the practical arrangements for their children instead of legal labels.
A Child Arrangement Order is a legal document that regulates:
- Who a child lives with, spends time with, or otherwise has contact with
- When a child lives, spends time, or has contact with another person
If you are seeking advice from our family law solicitors in Sheffield, Chesterfield, Dronfield or Mansfield, we can help you resolve the two main issues parents encounter: where a child will live and how much time they will spend with the parent they do not live with.
Who the child / children live with
If you and your partner cannot agree on where your child should live, the court will make a decision based on the child’s welfare needs and best interests. While courts rarely separate siblings, they will do so if it clearly benefits the children.
Courts are now frequently granting “joint” or “shared care” orders. These include a “residence” element, which means the child effectively has two homes. The court can specify exactly when a child lives with each parent (such as during school terms or holidays) or provide a general outline if they believe both parents can agree on the details themselves.
A Child Arrangement Order (CAO) with a residence element legally prevents anyone from:
- Changing the child(ren’s) name(s)
- Taking the child(ren) out of England and Wales for more than 28 days/1 month
- Permanent removal of the child(ren) from England and Wales
- Consenting to the child’s adoption without the agreement of everyone who holds Parental Responsibility
When a child spends time with you both
This part of the order settles when a child spends time with the parent they do not live with. These arrangements were previously known as “contact” or “access”. You do not need a court order to spend time with your child if both parents agree on the arrangements.
However, if the parent the child lives with makes it difficult for you to see your child, and mediation has either failed or is not suitable, you can apply for an order to secure this time. Navigating a divorce with children can be challenging, and our family law team is here to help you establish a routine that works for everyone.
Different forms of contact
Staying in touch can happen in many ways, including:
- Letters and emails
- Phone calls
- In-person visits
- Overnight stays
If the court has concerns about the level of care a parent can provide, it may order supervised or supported time. Supervised contact means another adult is present throughout the visit to ensure the child remains safe.
Changing circumstances
As your and the child(ren’s) circumstances change, original arrangements may no longer be suitable. Children might decide they no longer wish to visit the other parent, typically because they want to spend time with friends, or because the introduction of new partners and step-siblings has changed how they feel.
If your child(ren) struggle to follow an existing order, we recommend investigating the reasons and communicating with the other parent where possible. Dealing with changes quickly is better than letting the situation escalate, as ignoring a court order can lead to legal penalties.
We suggest talking to the other parent first to make any necessary adjustments, as this is the most effective way to change arrangements. If communication is difficult, our specialist family law solicitors can support and advise you through this process. If you still cannot reach an agreement, you may need to apply to the court to vary the existing order. We can help you clarify why this change is necessary and assist you with the making of a court application.
Specialised Support for Complex Family Situations
Child Abduction
If you are concerned that a parent may take your child abroad without your consent, you must act quickly. We provide urgent legal advice to help prevent unlawful removal from England and Wales or to assist in a child's safe return.
Parental Alienation
A child’s wellbeing should always come before conflict between parents or carers. If one parent / carer is negatively influencing a child’s relationship with another, we can advise you on what legal steps can be taken.
Grandparents’ Rights
Grandparents often play a vital role in their grandchildren’s upbringing, yet they do not hold automatic legal rights to see them. We can help you apply for court permission to secure a formal arrangement to maintain your relationship.
Why choose Banner Jones?
1. Extensive expertise in family law
We have significant experience in all aspects of family law. Whether you are managing a divorce or child arrangement orders, our family law specialists handle every matter with the utmost sensitivity and care.
2. Dedicated support for your family
Every family is unique, and navigating the legal system can be complex. We make the process straightforward and hassle-free, providing the dedicated support you need to reach a positive resolution for your family.
3. A focus on clear communication
Clear communication is vital during legal proceedings. Our family law team provides excellent service and compassionate support, which is why 97% of our clients say they would recommend us to a friend or relative.
4. Nationally recognised legal excellence
We are recognised as a “Leading Firm” by the UK Legal 500 for seven consecutive years. Our expert solicitors help families across South Yorkshire, Derbyshire, and Nottinghamshire navigate their legal journeys with confidence.
5. Transparent and fixed-fee pricing
We offer fixed-fee packages where possible to ensure there are no hidden costs. Our family law solicitors explain everything clearly from the start, so you have complete financial peace of mind while we help your family.
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