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At Banner Jones, we provide professional advice to help you manage family law issues, including separation, divorce, and arrangements involving children. Appointments available Monday-Thursday from 7.30am and on Fridays from 8am.

Children & Parenting in Chesterfield, Sheffield, Dronfield and Mansfield

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Advice on Managing Divorce if you Have Children

You know your children better than anyone else, and as a parent, you are best placed to make important decisions about their care and wellbeing. But there may be times you need additional guidance and support regarding divorce with children.

If you’re getting divorced, separating, or your cohabiting relationship is ending, our divorce solicitors can advise you on a wide range of issues relating to your children. As far as possible, we can help you reach an amicable agreement in your children’s best interests. Where this is not achievable, we can apply to the courts for appropriate orders on your behalf.

Our divorce and family law solicitors in Chesterfield, Sheffield, Dronfield and Mansfield are here to support and guide you every step of the way.

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Legal Advice and Support with Family Matters

We know that when relationships break down, it can put a lot of pressure on you and your family. Our expert family law solicitors are highly experienced and ensure every individual receives the utmost care and consideration throughout their case.

  • Tailored legal advice based on your individual family circumstances
  • Support in reaching constructive and non-confrontational settlements where possible
  • Guidance and advice from Resolution accredited specialists
  • Clear information about funding options and fixed fee packages
  • An early indication of the likely level of legal costs

Remember: Advice from friends and family is often well-meaning, but it may relate to very different situations and can unintentionally create false expectations. Always seek professional guidance from a family law specialist, like Banner Jones.

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We can Help with Children, Divorce or Finances

1. Call us to discuss your situation

Our friendly team are always available for a quick, no-obligation chat to understand your circumstances and how we may be able to help. We will identify the most suitable next step and, where appropriate, arrange an initial one-hour telephone appointment with an expert family law solicitor at a time that is convenient for you.

2. Choose a fixed fee legal advice package

We offer two types of initial appointments for a fixed fee, which is payable in advance.

The Thirty – 30 minute call: £100 +VAT (£120)

This package includes a 30-minute phone call with a family law solicitor. We will talk you through your options and provide advice to help you move forward. To keep costs as low as possible, this advice will not be confirmed in writing, although we will keep an internal record of the discussion.

The Sixty – 60 minute advice appointment: £250 +VAT (£300)

This is our most popular option and the package includes a 60-minute advice appointment with a family law solicitor. The meeting can take place by phone, virtually, or in person at one of our offices, depending on what is most convenient for you.

We will take a detailed history of your case, explain your options and provide the detailed advice you need to move forward. After the meeting, we will send you a letter confirming our advice in writing and outlining the next steps.

Important information

Our initial appointments differ from the ‘free 30 minute’ consultations offered by some law firms. Free appointments are often limited to general guidance, however we believe clients benefit from clear, tailored legal advice from the outset. In our experience, shorter free meetings do not allow enough time to discuss matters fully or provide practical advice about your specific situation, and written follow-up advice is usually charged for separately. No two situations are the same.

3. Speak with an expert, compassionate solicitor

During your appointment with one of our family law solicitors, we will listen carefully to your situation and explain the options available to you. We will then provide a clear professional opinion on the most appropriate route based on your individual circumstances. Where sufficient information is available, we can also advise you on the possible outcomes so you can make informed decisions about your next steps.

4. Receive professional, actionable advice in writing

Following the 60-minute meeting option with our family law solicitors, the advice will be confirmed in writing. This is included in the initial meeting fixed fee.

5. Think about your next steps

You can take your time to decide whether or not you wish to proceed with your case, and any further appointments will be made should you wish to move forward.

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Child Arrangement Orders

Child Arrangement Orders (CAO) replaced the previous "Residence" and "Contact" Orders on 22nd April 2014. This change encourages parents to focus on the practical arrangements for their children instead of legal labels.

A Child Arrangement Order is a legal document that regulates:

  • Who a child lives with, spends time with, or otherwise has contact with
  • When a child lives, spends time, or has contact with another person

If you are seeking advice from our family law solicitors in Sheffield, Chesterfield, Dronfield or Mansfield, we can help you resolve the two main issues parents encounter: where a child will live and how much time they will spend with the parent they do not live with.

Who the child / children live with

If you and your partner cannot agree on where your child should live, the court will make a decision based on the child’s welfare needs and best interests. While courts rarely separate siblings, they will do so if it clearly benefits the children.

Courts are now frequently granting “joint” or “shared care” orders. These include a “residence” element, which means the child effectively has two homes. The court can specify exactly when a child lives with each parent (such as during school terms or holidays) or provide a general outline if they believe both parents can agree on the details themselves.

A Child Arrangement Order (CAO) with a residence element legally prevents anyone from:

  • Changing the child(ren’s) name(s)
  • Taking the child(ren) out of England and Wales for more than 28 days/1 month
  • Permanent removal of the child(ren) from England and Wales
  • Consenting to the child’s adoption without the agreement of everyone who holds Parental Responsibility

When a child spends time with you both

This part of the order settles when a child spends time with the parent they do not live with. These arrangements were previously known as “contact” or “access”. You do not need a court order to spend time with your child if both parents agree on the arrangements.

However, if the parent the child lives with makes it difficult for you to see your child, and mediation has either failed or is not suitable, you can apply for an order to secure this time. Navigating a divorce with children can be challenging, and our family law team is here to help you establish a routine that works for everyone.

Different forms of contact

Staying in touch can happen in many ways, including:

  • Letters and emails
  • Phone calls
  • In-person visits
  • Overnight stays

If the court has concerns about the level of care a parent can provide, it may order supervised or supported time. Supervised contact means another adult is present throughout the visit to ensure the child remains safe.

Changing circumstances

As your and the child(ren’s) circumstances change, original arrangements may no longer be suitable. Children might decide they no longer wish to visit the other parent, typically because they want to spend time with friends, or because the introduction of new partners and step-siblings has changed how they feel.

If your child(ren) struggle to follow an existing order, we recommend investigating the reasons and communicating with the other parent where possible. Dealing with changes quickly is better than letting the situation escalate, as ignoring a court order can lead to legal penalties.

We suggest talking to the other parent first to make any necessary adjustments, as this is the most effective way to change arrangements. If communication is difficult, our specialist family law solicitors can support and advise you through this process. If you still cannot reach an agreement, you may need to apply to the court to vary the existing order. We can help you clarify why this change is necessary and assist you with the making of a court application.

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Specialised Support for Complex Family Situations

Child Abduction

If you are concerned that a parent may take your child abroad without your consent, you must act quickly. We provide urgent legal advice to help prevent unlawful removal from England and Wales or to assist in a child's safe return.

Child Abduction

Parental Alienation

A child’s wellbeing should always come before conflict between parents or carers. If one parent / carer is negatively influencing a child’s relationship with another, we can advise you on what legal steps can be taken.

Parental Alienation

Grandparents’ Rights

Grandparents often play a vital role in their grandchildren’s upbringing, yet they do not hold automatic legal rights to see them. We can help you apply for court permission to secure a formal arrangement to maintain your relationship.

Grandparents' Rights

Why choose Banner Jones?

1. Extensive expertise in family law

We have significant experience in all aspects of family law. Whether you are managing a divorce or child arrangement orders, our family law specialists handle every matter with the utmost sensitivity and care.

2. Dedicated support for your family

Every family is unique, and navigating the legal system can be complex. We make the process straightforward and hassle-free, providing the dedicated support you need to reach a positive resolution for your family.

3. A focus on clear communication

Clear communication is vital during legal proceedings. Our family law team provides excellent service and compassionate support, which is why 97% of our clients say they would recommend us to a friend or relative.

4. Nationally recognised legal excellence

We are recognised as a “Leading Firm” by the UK Legal 500 for seven consecutive years. Our expert solicitors help families across South Yorkshire, Derbyshire, and Nottinghamshire navigate their legal journeys with confidence.

5. Transparent and fixed-fee pricing

We offer fixed-fee packages where possible to ensure there are no hidden costs. Our family law solicitors explain everything clearly from the start, so you have complete financial peace of mind while we help your family.

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How to Tell Your Children That You Are Separating

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How to Tell Your Children That You Are Separating

Download our free guide for help and advice on how to tell your children that you are separating.

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In the 2021 guide Shetal received this testimonial from a women's refuge;

‘Shetal Gudgeon has a long history of working with women fleeing domestic abuse. We recommend her to our residents because we like the manner and tone of voice she uses when communicating with our women. She makes them feel valued and important. She shows empathy and respect. This is something some of our women have never experienced. Our women need a certain kind of person as they have fled domestic abuse, lost their homes and sometimes children. They have complex needs and are dealing with trauma.’

Previously recognised as a recommended Family Lawyer in The Good Lawyer Guide – the independent guide to solicitors in England and Wales –She is well known for providing clear and practical advice described as “second to none” and leaving “no stone unturned”. She has also been described as “professional”, “welcoming” and “empathetic”. Shetal works closely with her contacts such as charities in the areas of domestic violence and sexual abuse.

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Frequently Asked Children & Parenting Questions

How soon can I file for a divorce?

You can get divorced in England or Wales if all of the following are true:

  • you’ve been married for over a year
  • your relationship has permanently broken down
  • your marriage is legally recognised in the UK (including same-sex marriage) Speak to one of our divorce solicitors to ensure you meet the legal criteria.
What am I entitled to in a divorce?

The aim when sharing out matrimonial assets is to be fair. Both spouses have to make full disclosure about their assets and debts before any decisions can be made about distribution, trying to hide anything won't work. Factors which are important when sharing out the assets include the current and future needs of each spouse and any dependent children; the length of marriage and the age, earning capacity and contributions of each party. Our family law Chesterfield team can guide you through this process.

Will we have to go to court during our divorce?

In many cases, the answer is no. Under the no-fault divorce system in England and Wales, the legal process of ending a marriage is largely administrative and is usually dealt with online and through the court system without the need for either party to attend a court hearing.

However, while the divorce itself may not require a court appearance, disputes relating to finances, property or arrangements for children can sometimes result in court proceedings if an agreement cannot be reached. In many cases, these issues can be resolved through negotiation, solicitor-led discussions, mediation or other forms of dispute resolution, avoiding the need for a final court hearing.

Are parenting and financial arrangements part of a divorce?

These are separate legal issues and are not automatically covered by the divorce itself. You must reach a separate agreement regarding child arrangements and the division of assets. If you cannot agree, mediation is often required before seeking a court decision. Our family law solicitors in Sheffield, Chesterfield, Dronfield and Mansfield can explain the best options for your circumstances.

How does a judge decide which parent a child lives with?

The judge prioritises the best interests of the child above all else. The court considers several factors, including the child’s own wishes and feelings (age dependant) and the ability of each parent to provide a stable, supportive environment. We help you present a clear case that focuses on your child’s wellbeing.

Can a child live with both parents on a part-time basis?

Yes, this is a common arrangement. If parents agree to share care, the court will almost always approve the plan. If you can’t reach an agreement, the court will step in to determine a schedule that serves the child’s best interests. Our family solicitors in Sheffield, Chesterfield, Dronfield or Mansfield can help you draft these agreements.

Will I lose touch with my children?

The law encourages both parents to play an active role in their children's lives. If problems arise, mediation is an excellent way to resolve disputes and maintain a healthy relationship. Our family law solicitors provide expert advice on Shared Care Agreements and "Live With/Spend Time With" orders to protect your parental bond.

What is a Parental Responsibility?

Parental Responsibility covers the legal rights and duties regarding a child's welfare and education. While parents can make day-to-day decisions independently, major choices – such as schooling, medical issues or travelling abroad – require mutual consent. If a child is taken out of England and Wales without permission, we can assist with emergency court applications for their safe return.

Children & Parenting Resources

Navigating School Choice Disagreements after Separation: A Practical Guide

Navigating School Choice Disagreements after Separation: A Practical Guide

Discover practical guidance for resolving disagreements over school choice and understanding how parental responsibility, mediation, and court applications work when separated parents cannot agree. Here, Shetal Gudgeon, our specialist Family Law Solicitor in South Yorkshire, Derbyshire, Nottinghamshire and surrounding areas explains your legal options and when obtaining legal advice can make a real difference.

How to Make a Will

How to Make a Will

Making a Will is commonly associated as something you do in later life however, in reality anyone over the age of 18 can have a Will and we would strongly recommend it to anyone with children.

What Happens When a Parent Breaches a Court Order?

What Happens When a Parent Breaches a Court Order?

When a Court issues an Order, it is legally binding and must be followed by all parties involved. Unfortunately, there are instances where one party may disregard or breach a Court Order, causing frustration and potential harm to the child and the other party. This article aims to shed light on the consequences and legal recourse available when a party breaches a Court Order in the context of family law.

 Advice on Parental Alienation

Advice on Parental Alienation

Shetal Gudgeoun talks about the signs and symptoms of parental alienation and what you can do.

How to Tell Your Children That You Are Separating

How to Tell Your Children That You Are Separating

Download our free guide for help and advice on how to tell your children that you are separating.

No fault divorce- what are the changes?

No fault divorce- what are the changes?

You may well have heard in the news that the government are reforming the divorce process to introduce the so called ‘no fault divorce’ . This shall remove the element of fault and blame from the current divorce process and it is hoped that this will assist separating couples, making the court process less fraught and upsetting.

Do grandparents have a right to contact with their grandchildren?

Do grandparents have a right to contact with their grandchildren?

The short answer is that grandparents in England and Wales do not have an automatic legal right to see their grandchildren. But that is not the end of the story. There are routes available to grandparents who want to maintain or restore contact, and the family courts take grandparental relationships seriously when deciding what is best for a child.

Grandparents often play a significant role in their grandchildren’s lives, offering support, continuity, and a different kind of love from that of a parent. When family life is settled, contact between the two generations usually takes care of itself. However, when relationships break down, through separation, bereavement, or a family falling-out, grandparents can find themselves pushed to the margins or shut out altogether.

Child vaccinations and what happens when the parents disagree

Child vaccinations and what happens when the parents disagree

All child vaccinations in the UK are voluntary and therefore parental consent must be given prior to the vaccination.

The Divorce Process

The Divorce Process

This guide explains the divorce process and covers the key points that anyone considering, or in the process of, a divorce should understand.

What to do when a summer break becomes a summer break up?

What to do when a summer break becomes a summer break up?

When it comes to holidays, most people look to forward to spending time with their loved ones. We all need time to recharge and "get away from it all".
Why children come first in a divorce

Why children come first in a divorce

During a break up, being fair and civilised to each other is often the best you can hope for, but when there are children involved emotions need to be set aside.

Practical Advice - Taking Children Abroad After Separation

Practical Advice - Taking Children Abroad After Separation

Planning ahead is important for most family holidays, but if you are looking to take your children abroad and you have separated or divorced, then the sooner you prepare this, the better.

Applying to Court for Children Arrangements

Applying to Court for Children Arrangements

We've created a downloadable resource to help you to understand the key factors and procedures in applying to court.

Children & Separation Guide

Children & Separation Guide

Getting through a divorce or separation is hard at the best of times but is often even harder when there are children involved in the relationship. Use our helpful guide for tips on explaining the situation to the children.

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